1:1 PRIVATE COACHING

A 3-Month 1:1 Experience for the Overwhelmed Latina Who’s Ready to Enjoy Sex Sin Vergüenza

You’re Doing A lot

Holding it down at work, for your family, in your relationship—maybe even all three.

But when it comes to sex? You feel disconnected. Numb. Like you’re just going through the motions.

You’ve carried guilt, shame, and silence around your sexuality for way too long.  

You’re tired.

You’re ready to stop being calladita. 

You’re ready to speak up, own your desires, and enjoy sex sin vergüenza.

And, you’re tired of waiting for permission to do it..

This is your invitation to step into a private space where it’s safe to talk about all the cochinadas your abuela didn’t tell you about—sin vergüenza.

This is for you if…

✔ You want to feel more connected to your, body but feel too overwhelmed to even start

✔ You’re exhausted from taking care of everyone else and constantly putting yourself last

✔ You feel guilt around sex—or don’t even know what you want from sex anymore

✔ You love your partner, but sex still feels like a chore rather than something you enjoy

✔ You want to feel more connected to your body but feel too overwhelmed to even start

✔ You want to feel seen without having to explain every part of yourself. You just want to be understood.

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What You’ll Get

You don’t need another position, toy, or piece of advice.

You need support in identifying your unique roadblocks—what’s stopping you from enjoying sex.

You’ll get three months of private, personalized coaching to help you feel more connected to your body, clearer about what you want, and more confident asking for it.

This isn’t about doing more. It’s about unlearning the stuff that’s been keeping you stuck and finally enjoying sex sin vergüenza.

Here’s What’s Included:

  • We meet weekly on Zoom for focused, powerful sessions—short, impactful, and centered on exactly what you need.


  • You’ll have direct access to me during the week to ask questions, process emotions, celebrate small wins—and address the overwhelm when it hits midweek. No waiting for the next session—we move through it together.


  • We’re unpacking the cochinadas that were never talked about—because of silence, shame, or secrecy. You’ll finally get the sex ed you deserved—rooted in truth, cultura, and pleasure.

  • Simple, grounded practices after each session to help you integrate what you’re learning—even when you’re overwhelmed.


  • We’ll map out exactly how you experience orgasm—what turns you on, what gets you there, and how to make it happen again and again. No more hoping your partner figures it out. You’ll know exactly what works and how to ask for it.


What We’ll Cover

We’ll move at your pace and focus on what’s actually coming up in your life—but here’s the core journey we’ll take inside 1:1 coaching:

  • Step 1: Identify Your Unique Orgasm Technique

    We don’t start with “fixing” you—because you’re not broken. We start with what already feels fucking good. You’ll uncover your unique orgasm technique and learn how your body actually gets off—so you can stop faking, stop hoping, and start doing more of what works.

  • Step 2: Expand Your Capacity for Pleasure

    You’ll learn how to create your own pleasure rather than waiting on your partner to do it for you and build your pleasure capacity making sex feel less like something you “should” do—and more like something you crave.

  • Step 3: Create Your Sexual Identity

    We’ll untangle the guilt, shame, and cultural messaging that’s shaped your relationship to sex—and help you build a sexual identity that actually fits you. Whether it’s vanilla, kinky, or somewhere in between—this is where you define what sex gets to look and feel like for you - sin vergüenza.

Why 1:1?

Because when you're overwhelmed, you don’t need more-more sex positions, toys, or advice.

 You need answers that actually fucking work and don’t take hours to implement. You need someone to walk you through it so you don’t chicken out once again.

You don’t have to explain your cultura, your family dynamics, or why this has felt so fucking hard. I get it, so we have a head start. 

You get to come as you are, say the shit you’ve been holding in for years, and finally enjoy sex sin vergüenza.

They Were Overwhelmed Too—Until They Weren’t

Here’s what happened when they stopped putting themselves last and started enjoying sex sin vergüenza.

Those messages? All from 1:1 clients.

Now here’s what they had to say when they had a little more time to reflect.

Tania O.

“Shame used to run my sex life—and my day-to-day life too.”

→ How she redefined safety and value on her own terms—and started showing up with more confidence everywhere.

How did shame or hesitation impact your sex life before working with me?
Shame and hesitation fully impacted my life. I would say that they would both dominated the way that I approached my sex life and my day to day life.

What was most helpful in overcoming those barriers to enjoy sex more freely?
Readdressing and rediscovering the idea of what defines my value and my safety. Understanding and embodying that both are not defined by exterior factors or any one else other myself. That this are concepts and beliefs that I establish for myself.

How has your experience with sex changed since our work together?
There is more confidence and more conversation. There is less expectation and disappointment because there is more conversation about fulfills our intimacy cup and how to plan our fulfillment around every day lives stressors.

What would you say to someone who feels unsure about embracing their sexual confidence?
That embracing our sexual confidence is not just about our sex life its about our everyday liberation and confidence. All these aspects of life are interconnected and not compartmentalized. How we embrace ourselves outside the ¨bedroom¨ will translate in the bedroom. So embracing that sexual confidence is essential.

Meg R.

“I went from resenting sex to orgasms I didn’t think were possible.”


 → How she stopped putting herself last and started craving sex—with herself and with her partner.

How did shame or hesitation impact your sex life before working with me?
Shame and hesitation fully impacted my life. I would say that they would both dominated the way that I approached my sex life and my day to day life.

What was most helpful in overcoming those barriers to enjoy sex more freely?
Readdressing and rediscovering the idea of what defines my value and my safety. Understanding and embodying that both are not defined by exterior factors or any one else other myself. That this are concepts and beliefs that I establish for myself.

How has your experience with sex changed since our work together?
There is more confidence and more conversation. There is less expectation and disappointment because there is more conversation about fulfills our intimacy cup and how to plan our fulfillment around every day lives stressors.

What would you say to someone who feels unsure about embracing their sexual confidence?
That embracing our sexual confidence is not just about our sex life its about our everyday liberation and confidence. All these aspects of life are interconnected and not compartmentalized. How we embrace ourselves outside the ¨bedroom¨ will translate in the bedroom. So embracing that sexual confidence is essential.

You’ve read their stories—now it’s your turn

→ Apply now and let’s do this

MEET YOUR COACH: ANA

I’m Ana—proud Latina, sexologist, sex coach, y orgullosamente sin vergüenza.

I spent 8 overwhelming years in a relationship I didn’t even want, convinced it was the only way I’d ever experience pleasure. I thought I needed the one to make me cum. Turns out—I was the one all along.

I stopped looking for someone else to do it for me and started exploring all the ways I could make myself cum. And once I did? Everything changed.

Now, I help overwhelmed Latinas harness that power for themselves—so they never have to choose between a healthy relationship and sexual fulfillment ever again.

You don’t need more tips, toys, or mixed messages—you need clarity, direct guidance, and someone who actually gets it.

That’s where I come in.

THE INVESTMENT

Flexible Pricing Plans
3 Monthly Payments – $1,000/month
One-Time Payment – $3,000

Ready is a myth. Desire is enough. If even one part of you wants to enjoy sex sin vergüenza—it’s time. 

Apply Now to Work With Me 1:1
(Limited spots available)

Still Not Sure if This is For You?

Let Me Make It Easy.

  • You don’t need a partner to do this work—or to have good sex. This is about you, your body, and your pleasure. Whether you're single, in a relationship, in a situationship or in your hoe era, this is for you.

  • No. It’s for anyone who feels like sex could be better—but isn’t sure how to make it better. Whether you’re not orgasming at all, only sometimes, or you’re just tired of guessing what works, we’ll figure it out together.

  • You can tell me as much—or as little—as you want. This isn’t confessional hour. You decide what’s off limits. I’m not here to push—I’m here to help you get what you came for. When you’re ready to go there, I’ll be there.

  • Most therapists aren’t trained in sex—and most sex ed wasn’t made for Latinas. I’m a master-level sexologist who knows how to actually talk about sex, shame, and cultura without making it awkward or watered down. This is direct, honest, and made to actually help you enjoy sex sin vergüenza.

  • Yes. This was made for the version of you who’s barely keeping it together. The one holding it down at work, at home, in your relationship—and still feeling disconnected. The sessions are 30 minutes, direct and focused, and you don’t have to come in “ready.” Just show up exactly as you are—I’ll take care of the rest.

  • That’s normal. We go at the pace you set—you’re the authority here. I’m just here to hold space and walk with you when you’re ready. We can start with whatever feels easiest—even if it’s not about sex yet. There’s no rush, no pressure, and nothing you have to say before you’re ready.

  • Perfect. That’s literally what we’re here for. You don’t need to have the answers—that’s my job. I’ll help you figure out what actually feels good to you so you can get more of it and stop settling for whatever just happens.

  • Not a lot. Sessions are 30 minutes—short, powerful, and straight to the point. You’ll leave with things you can actually use, not a bunch of homework you’ll never do. This work fits into your life, not the other way around.

  • Life happens. If something comes up, just let me know and we’ll reschedule. I don’t do “falling behind”—we just pick up where we left off.


  • Nope. You don’t need to be having sex—or even want to—to do this work. Whether you're celibate, in your dry spell era, or just not feeling it lately, pleasure is still yours to claim. This is about feeling good in your body, owning what you want (or figuring it out), and doing it all sin vergüenza.

Didn’t see your question?

Hit me up at ana@sexinspanglish.com

If it’s on your mind, it’s worth asking.

Your pleasure was never theirs to figure out.

You’ve already spent enough time waiting.

Now it’s your turn.

Apply for 1:1 coaching now.