You wish you craved sex and actually enjoyed it
Ana Lopez - Sexologist, Sex Coach & Smut Consultant
Whether your libido is low or sex just isn’t what it used to be, I help you enjoy sex sin vergüenza.
About Me
They say sin vergüenza like it’s a bad thing
At 16 I had sex for the very first time. It was good, but there were no orgasms in sight.
Not even close.
It took 3 years to experience an orgasm and 8 more to figure out how to have one on my own.
11 years in, I realized:
We create our own pleasure.
And yet…
Your libido is low, sex feels like a chore, and you can’t orgasm reliably.
But, the problem isn’t your partner, your body, or your toy.
It’s your relationship to sex.
I founded Sex in Spanglish® in 2020 to change Latinas’ relationship to sex.
Yours is next.
You are your own source of pleasure and I’m here to help you reclaim it - sin vergüenza.
You think you don’t like sex…
But, you just don’t like the sex you’re having
When you don’t like the sex you’re having you begin believing you don’t like sex.
In reality, you’re in one of three cycles:
Forcing it
You beat yourself up for not wanting to have sex because a "good” wife/girlfriend would want to.
So, you have sex even though you don’t want to leaving you feeling resentful of your partner and pissed off at yourself for giving in.
You hate feeling this way so you just avoid sex altogether and, eventually, your libido is gone.
Hiding it
On the rare chance you do want sex you act like you don’t.
You’re worried if you have sex this time your partner will expect it more often and you’re not sure you’ll want it again.
So, you ignore your body’s desire for sex and steer clear of your partner till you’re sure it’s gone.
Over time, sex happens less and less until it feels like you don’t have a libido anymore.
Overthinking it
When you do have sex it feels like a big deal.
So even if it is good, it’s not as good as you expected leaving you feeling disappointed.
The fear of disappointment makes you avoid sex and ongoing avoidance disguises itself as low libido.
This isn’t about you not liking sex.
You just don’t like the sex you’re having.
That’s what I help you change.
What my clients have to say
“I removed the guilt and shame and I finally began enjoying sex! My husband and I went from a point of almost hating each other to craving for each other.”
This is what sex looks like when you’re out of the cycle.
You’ve been searching for the how.
This is the why.
Start here
Start understanding your pleasure today, even if your libido is non-existent.
Start with The Mind-Blown Method™
Group Coaching
La Sin Vergüenza Symposium™ was made with la mujer Latina in mind. La Sin Vergüenza Symposium™ is for the woman who is ready to change her relationship with sex and reclaim her sexual powers so she can enjoy sex one shameless orgasm at a time.
Over six months, you'll create an intimate understanding of your body, become the horny one in the relationship while making sure you're always satisfied, learn to be a dominant presence in and out of the bedroom, work through the emotional and cultural shit getting in the way, and create a sex life that you want, not what you think you should want.
Inside La Sin Vergüenza Symposium™ you'll have access to:
💋 Personalized sex education - including Sex Ed 101, The Anatomy of the Orgasm, The Pleasure Pathway, and additional topics requested by the group
💋 Live course instruction with the opportunity to ask questions, get feedback, and apply what you're learning to your actual sex life
💋 Weekly group coaching calls
💋 24/7 private Slack access for coaching and community support
💋 A community of Latinas who get it, no explanation required
💋The Lair - Advanced sex education modules including a sex position workshop, kink & BDSM 101, and BDSM on a budget. The Lair also has its very own private coaching call once a month.
💋 1:1 emergency coaching sessions with Ana
💋 Exclusive upgrades that aren't available anywhere else
Enroll in La Sin Vergüenza Symposisum™
1:1 Coaching
For the person ready to change their relationship to sex and experience pleasure sin vergüenza - in and out of the bedroom.
Apply for 1:1 coaching
Speaking & Workshops
From conferences and educational events to retreats and intimate gatherings, bring engaging conversations about sex, pleasure, relationships, and empowerment to your next event.
Available virtually and in person, my interactive workshops create opportunities for meaningful conversations, hands-on learning, and practical tools your audience can take beyond the experience. Topics and experiences can be customized to fit your group's interests and needs.
Book Ana for your next event
Listen in
Discover why you’re stuck in the same cycles that keep you from enjoying sex sin vergüenza.
Listen to the Sex in Spanglish® Podcast